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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 1:39:09 PM
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furrypurrykitty
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I don't like ______ about him, but I know he'll change for me.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 1:46:28 PM
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sunshine22
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I don't like ______ about him, but I know he'll change for me.
Or better yet "I can change him" *rolls eyes*
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 1:46:37 PM
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I think that really is the biggest one women fall into.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 1:56:54 PM
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SurpassingPeace
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I think all of those fall into the "he will change for me because we is in lurve!" category. It is a lie, plain and simple. Whoever you are dating, that is who you will be marrying but without the kid gloves and a few less social niceties.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 2:04:33 PM
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RichLP
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- He'll never grow a pot belly.
- He will never leave the towel on the bed after showering.
- He will always remember to place worn socks and underwear in the laundry bin.
- He will never forget to shower after coming home from work or before bed.
- He won't always snore.
- He'll have what it takes not to watch the NFL just to be with me.
- He will never look at other women.
- He'll never raise his voice.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 2:25:20 PM
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I don't like ______ about him, but I know he'll change for me.
Or better yet "I can change him" *rolls eyes*
My poor husbands ex wife spent all of the 23 years of their marriage trying to make him into a man that he never was.The thing is that he is a lovely, godly, moral man so she didnt need to change him at all, but she thought she did.
The consequense was that he never felt loved or accepted in all that time.Very sad. She then thought that she had found her 'ideal man' in her lover, but after a few months that didnt work either. Maybe she needs to accept that the perfect man doesnt actually exist (the same as the perfect women doesnt exist). Otherwise it will be a sad and lonely life.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 3:25:15 PM
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It will all work out after we're married. My advice is: leave no topic undiscussed before you say I do. That includes money, working, children, sex, families and holidays...everything.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 4:15:12 PM
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hotsaucygma
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1) "There aren't any good men out there" - a lie. The older we get the harder they may be to find, but there are good men (and good women) "out there".
2) He just went through a bad divorce, he's not really an angry person otherwise.
3) He's not out with someone else, he's got a family obligation tonight.
Oh ya, there's plenty of them (lies that is)!!
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 4:15:36 PM
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mec
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He wont treat me bad if I go back to him
He`ll treat the next girl so much better
If only I give him`one` more chance, he`ll change
these words absolutely destroyed me with friends of mine. They would rather spend life will a complete idiot, then give me one chance.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 4:26:14 PM
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How about, "His last four marriages have failed, but only because the women were evil and only after his money. It wasn't his fault." 
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 4:31:50 PM
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hotsaucygma
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^^ Good one!
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 5:07:41 PM
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sunshine22
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How about... "He only hit me because I was in a bad mood and snapping at him and..." (yeah, there is no excuse for any man to hit a woman)
"Oh, he'd never do that to me. i'm too special for that" (special alright....)
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 5:19:22 PM
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mec
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Yeah the one: theres no decent guys is popular. Its bad when a woman friend says it to your face.
Kissing cousins...who actually beleived that? or he responded "oh shes just a friend"
the 4 divorces....really? women would blame the other women?
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 7:25:41 PM
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He's really shy. (instead of not interested)
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/7/2010 10:47:02 PM
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mec
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He's really shy. (instead of not interested)
thats only true, until you see him talk to someone else.
Please be careful with ones that are abusive, theres no reason to stay with one who does hit a woman. Save yourself.
And another one, one of my biggest peeves, do NOT marry some one if the relationshi pis on the rocks, it will only get worse after you get married. Marriage doesnt save relationships.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/8/2010 2:14:06 AM
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he'd knows to use laundry detergent in the washing machine, not dish soap. ....oops.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/8/2010 3:01:53 AM
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1. He is only behind in child support because his ex keeps taking him to court to get more money.
2. He's only out of work because so many places keep hiring "foreigners".
3. He really loves his mom, just look at all the time he spends at her home.
4. That girl he's been seen around town with is his "cousin".
5. He only drinks when he's "blue".
6. The car is giving him trouble, that's why he's late coming home.
7. He only gambles for fun.
8. He's separated... I should try to be his "friend".
9. That phone number belongs to a woman who's a client/customer of his...it doesn't mean anything.
10. He only cheated because he'd drank too much.
11. He didn't flirt with that woman, he accidentally brushed against her.
12. He stopped wearing his wedding ring because he doesn't want to lose it.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/8/2010 5:12:25 AM
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herestoresmysoul
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How about, "His last four marriages have failed, but only because the women were evil and only after his money. It wasn't his fault."
yes how true. The only thing in common with lots of divorces is that person. Any one divorced three or four times needs to be very carefully scrutinised in my opinion.
I know a Christian lady who had an affair with a three times divorced non Christian man and she thought God had sent him to her. I mean what????duh.
Needless to say he never asked her to marry him and they broke up shortly after her divorce.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/8/2010 5:17:05 AM
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herestoresmysoul
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Jamie love no 3. It could turn into "when we are married he wont keep going round to his mums house", or "he will leave his mothers house" Or "when we are married he will listen to me and not his mother" (not)or maybe "he wont be a mummies boy anymore after we are married" (yes he will)
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/8/2010 6:53:58 AM
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CoeurdeLeon
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8. He's separated... I should try to be his "friend".
Or "his evil wife just divorced him, I should be his friend"
Can't tell you how many times I've seen that one happen.
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RE: lies women tell themselves about men - 1/8/2010 7:58:21 AM
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herestoresmysoul
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8. He's separated... I should try to be his "friend".
Or "his evil wife just divorced him, I should be his friend"
Can't tell you how many times I've seen that one happen.
In my husbands case it was actually true.There are some evil wives around you know (as well as evil husbands)
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